SectionThe Funeral Prayer Step by Step
The basis that gathers the order of the funeral prayer is what came from Abu Umamah ibn Sahl, may Allah have mercy on him: that from the Sunnah is that the imam says takbir, then recites al-Fatihah quietly, then sends prayers upon the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, sincerely supplicates for the deceased, then says salam. A group of hadith scholars authenticated its chain.
Step One: Intention, Standing, and the First Takbir
The worshiper stands facing the qiblah, intending in his heart to pray over the deceased, then raises his hands to the level of his shoulders or ears and says:
"Allahu akbar."
Then he places his right hand over his left on his chest as he does in the rest of prayer.
He seeks refuge in Allah quietly, says the basmalah, then recites Surah al-Fatihah completely and quietly:
{In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Especially Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. The Most Merciful, the Especially Merciful. Master of the Day of Judgment. You alone we worship, and You alone we ask for help. Guide us to the straight path, the path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor, not of those who earned anger, nor of those who are astray} [al-Fatihah: 1-7].
The evidence is the hadith of Talhah ibn Abdullah ibn Awf, who said:
"I prayed behind Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, over a funeral, and he recited the Opening of the Book. He said: So that they may know that it is Sunnah."
Narrated by al-Bukhari.
The default is to recite quietly. Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, only recited aloud for teaching.
Reciting al-Fatihah is sufficient. A group of scholars recommended reciting a short surah or some verses quietly after it, because it is established from Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, that he recited in the funeral prayer al-Fatihah and a surah, then said: "Sunnah and truth." Narrated by al-Nasai. But reciting a surah is not a pillar or an obligation. Whoever limits himself to al-Fatihah, his prayer is valid. One should not lengthen it, because the funeral prayer is built upon lightness.
Step Two: The Second Takbir and Sending Prayers upon the Prophet, Peace and Blessings Be upon Him
The worshiper raises his hands and says:
"Allahu akbar."
Then he sends prayers upon the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, with the Ibrahimic prayer that is said in the tashahhud:
"O Allah, send prayers upon Muhammad and upon the family of Muhammad, as You sent prayers upon Ibrahim and upon the family of Ibrahim. Indeed, You are Praiseworthy, Glorious. O Allah, bless Muhammad and the family of Muhammad, as You blessed Ibrahim and the family of Ibrahim. Indeed, You are Praiseworthy, Glorious."
Step Three: The Third Takbir and Supplication for the Deceased
The worshiper raises his hands and says:
"Allahu akbar."
Then he sincerely supplicates for the deceased. Among the most authentic and comprehensive supplications is what Awf ibn Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, narrated. He said: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, prayed over a funeral, and I memorized from his supplication:
"O Allah, forgive him and have mercy on him, pardon him and grant him wellbeing, honor his reception, make his entrance spacious, wash him with water, snow, and hail, cleanse him of sins as a white garment is cleansed of dirt, replace his home with a better home, his family with a better family, and his spouse with a better spouse, admit him into Paradise, and protect him from the trial of the grave and the punishment of the Fire."
Narrated by Muslim.
Another established supplication is:
"O Allah, forgive our living and our dead, those present and those absent, our young and our old, our males and our females. O Allah, whoever You keep alive among us, keep him alive upon Islam, and whoever You cause to die among us, cause him to die upon faith."
Narrated by Abu Dawud, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nasai, and Ibn Majah with close wordings, and authenticated by a group of hadith scholars.
It is also permissible to add:
"O Allah, do not deprive us of his reward, and do not lead us astray after him."
If the funeral is for a woman, he says: "O Allah, forgive her and have mercy on her," and changes the pronouns to feminine. If they are a group, he says: "O Allah, forgive them and have mercy on them." The point is not to gather every supplication in one prayer. Rather, he supplicates with what is easy from the transmitted supplications, and gives attention to sincerity and presence of heart.
What Is Said If the Deceased Is a Child?
Supplication is made for the child and for his parents. Among the suitable supplications mentioned by the scholars is:
"O Allah, make him a forerunner and stored reward for his parents, and an accepted intercessor. O Allah, make their rewards great through him, make their scales heavy through him, join him with the righteous predecessors of the believers, place him in the care of Ibrahim, peace be upon him, and protect him by Your mercy from the punishment of Hellfire."
This is a suitable wording mentioned by the scholars, but it should not be attributed in its entirety to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, as a raised hadith. It is permissible to supplicate for his parents with forgiveness, mercy, steadfastness, and reward.
It has come in the hadith:
"The miscarried fetus is prayed over, and supplication is made for his parents for forgiveness and mercy."
Narrated by Abu Dawud and al-Tirmidhi, and authenticated by a group of hadith scholars.
If a child was born alive and then died, the funeral prayer is offered over him. As for a miscarried fetus upon whom no sign of life appeared, if four months had passed, then there is disagreement among the scholars about praying over him. The stronger view, and Allah knows best, is that he is prayed over because the soul has been breathed into him. This is the view of jurists from the people of hadith and the choice of Ibn Baz and Ibn Uthaymin, may Allah have mercy on them. As for what is miscarried before four full months, the funeral prayer is not offered over it because the soul has not been breathed into it. But it is wrapped in a cloth and buried in a suitable place, and patience and seeking reward are legislated for the parents.
Step Four: The Fourth Takbir and Salam
The worshiper raises his hands and says:
"Allahu akbar."
Then he remains silent for a short pause. No specific supplication is established to be regularly observed after the fourth takbir. Then he says salam to his right, saying:
"As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah."
One salam is the well-known practice in the funeral prayer according to many scholars. If he says two salams, there is no problem, because the issue is one of recognized scholarly reasoning.